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The Paradox of Boundaries ...

 

While I truly believe that I am unique, I'm not THAT unique to be experiencing life's lessons all by myself and one of the biggest lessons for me at the moment is on setting boundaries.

Now we have all gone through the boundaries vs limitations arguments many times, and I do believe that while we must work at losing our limitations, we also need to set boundaries. If we lose our boundaries, we eventually lose our integrity.

Think about it . even if you drift through life like a jellyfish and always react rather than act, you still have boundaries. Otherwise, why does a jellyfish sting you when you overstep their territory?

Or think about dancers, real dancers . they set their dance space, their place in which they work to create a beautiful dance which honours them, their body, their talent, and through that, their Universe.

So, like every one of life's lessons that I've discovered so far, boundaries and limitations are a paradox that we need to personally work through, to maintain our balance, our unique place in our unique Universe.

Good luck with your personal balancing act, and may you discern with compassion.

Bright blessings